We keep an open mind when it comes to most style-related questions. That’s because questions of style ultimately come down to personal preference, which vary from one person to the next as much as fit. But if there’s one issue where we’re willing to draw a line in the sand it’s this: no clip-on bow ties.

Yes, this might seem a little harsh at first. Particularly because tying a bow tie is not so simple as tying a necktie, and requires a bit of practice to grow accustomed to. And tying the perfect bow tie seems like an impossible task.

But here’s the thing: the perfectly tied bow tie doesn’t exist, and never will. It’s always going to be just a tad out of balance or askew, and that’s what gives it its charm. Rather than the staid, strict composure of a clip-on tie, the self-tied bow tie looks organic and lived-in, which gives it a distinct charm of its own that no pre-tied tie can compare too.

So whether you’re considering a bow tie for your big day or simply feel like dressing up for an occasion (even if it’s lunch at home) we encourage you to embrace the self-tied bow tie, and its perfect imperfection.